NLP for Dealing With Dysgraphia

A womanonce contacted measking for help with recommending schools in herarea that would be suitable for her 9 years-young grandson who had been diagnosed with severe dysgraphia. I feltinspired to relay here exactly what I advised her to help the many more (grand)parents who want the best for their severely diagnosed children. I hope you'll extract and put the value from this into action, and spread the word to those in need!As soon as someone hasbeen diagnosed the following happens: the worddiagnosisspurs the thinking that the diagnosed person is ill or has something wrong with them and that's the way it must stay forever and everyone else must work around it, but notwithit. Then the content of the diagnosis [in this case severe dysgraphia] provides another psychological label. The danger of labels is that they pervade the diagnosed person's identity and provide a handy excuse [to the diagnosed person AND all persons around the diagnosed person] fornot questioning the condition further and thus not taking action. Once we're labeled being x, we have an instant explanation for many things and can continue living smugly.Don't let this happen;dysgraphia is also one of those "conditions" that can be improved. Here's how:1.Don't mention the labels in front of the child - this will prevent him/her from taking it to his/her identity and being debilitated for the rest of his/herlife. Don't let the labels block his/her drive to take action to eradicate the condition.2.People who have writing difficulties often believe that there's something wrong with their brains or the motor functioning of their arms / hands. This is a BELIEF which can be eradicated. Taking action instead of letting yourself hide behind diagnostic labels will eventually prove the belief invalid / ridiculous.3.Train the person to use the visual skills s/he already has. People with literacy-related learning difficulties always are immensely visual!EXERCISE 1: Ask the person to imagine his/her fridge at home, what color the door is, which way it opens, open it, look inside the fridge and tell you 3 things s/he can see. S/he'll tell you not only that, but also where in the fridge the 3 things are. And with amazing passion and accuracy! Have fun with this!EXERCISE 2: Ask him to tell you about his fave sports team: what colors the players wear, what their shirts look like, where their names and playernumbers are located, etc. You'll see how much detail he'll be able to report! If he's a fan of a different activity, go with what he is familiar with. Imention sport as an example to show you the principle. These 2 exercises will prove to you that his visual skills are EXCELLENT!EXERCISE 3: Ask him to choose one object near him, e.g. a cup, and stare at it for 15 seconds, then close his eyes. When his eyes are closed, ask him to describe how much of the cup he sees in his imagination. He'll see some. Then repeat the process and listen to how much more of the cup he'll report seeing the second time. Do this processseveral times a day for several weeks with a different object each time. Make it a fun game so he finds it fun to do. This will sharpen his observational skills and memory.4.Now we've established that the person's visual skills are fully operational. We are at a stage where he has been practising the 3 exercises for several weeks and his observational skills will be much sharper. Now give him one object, e.g. the cup, to draw with his eyes [= to follow the shape of the cup with his eyes as if drawing it in his imagination] as he looks at it. Once he can do it, ask him to draw it on paper. If he can, you've laid foundations for successful writing. If he can't, draw a very simple shape (e.g. a star) on paper, turn the page upside down, and ask him to copy exactly what he sees line by line. Encourage him totake his time. He'll do it - very successfully!5.Once he manages to copy the cup or star to a satisfactory stage [this may take a few attempts, but stick with it and give him time], you're ready to give him numbers to copy in exactly the same way:write the number on a paper and turn it upside down. Let him copy it line by line. Numbers are simpler than letters, so once he manages numbers, he'll be ready for letters. Start with CAPITAL LETTERS, because they're more distinctivethan lower case letters.6.Once he can copy anything you give him, he'll beable to write numbers and letters in groups of 2, 3, and 4 as well as word syllables.7.And words will then follow easily.8. VERY IMPORTANT POINT:When starting to drawanything on paper put it on the wall up to or slightly above the person's eye level. This is because he'll then process it in the visual field. NEVER let him write while holding the paper in his lap or near his groin, because you'd be keeping him in the feelings which will probably be negative [e.g. "I can't write", or "I'm terrible at writing", or "I hate writing"]. Always take him out of the feelings [his lap] and up to his visual field [his eye level].It pays to invest in large paper sheets designed for sticking on flipcharts. They look like huge postit notes and can be stuck on a wall without marking it.Contact mefor more help with dealing with dysgraphia with NLP.Article Source:http://EzineArticles.com/expert/Lucy_SC/649650